My First 3 Months Blogging + Tips for New Bloggers

It’s hard to believe that I officially launched my blog a little over 3 months ago. If you had asked me a year ago if I would be blogging, I probably would have laughed out loud. It definitely wasn’t something I had planned on doing, but I stumbled across the idea this summer and decided to give it a try.

a laptop on a bed with a coffee and muffin

Why did I start blogging?


  • Provides a creative outlet
  • Is an opportunity to build something from the ground up
  • You can track and measure progress in real time
  • You get to know people (other bloggers) from all over the world
  • It’s a way to build community with other parents that are on the same journey
  • It’s compatible with family life and other commitments
  • And, to my surprise, it can be another revenue stream
What I didn’t anticipate

Not only did I not predict that I would be a committed “blogger” in 2017, I also didn’t anticipate

  1. The family, friends and colleagues that would encourage and support this new endeavor
  2. How much time I’d spend each day / week on blogging activities
  3. The friendliness and support the blogger community provides to each other
  4. That I would be using tools like PicMonkey, Mail Chimp, Tailwind, Boardbooster, Blue Host, or Google Analytics. (It felt like a whole other language when I started)
  5. There would be 11,600 total page views in the first 3 ½ months
  6. That I would belong to so many Facebook Blogger Groups (15 and counting) and it would take over my FB feed!
  7. My husband would be my Chief Editing Officer
  8. That several of my posts would be shared by other bloggers on the other side of the world including England and the Philippines
  9. I could find the time to squeeze something of this magnitude into our already busy lives!
Our Happy Hive’s Progress

The below chart is from Google Analytics and shows the number of page views on Our Happy Hive each month. I’m not sure if there’s a target one should have in their first few months, but I’m glad it’s headed in the right direction.

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I’ve focused on Instagram, Facebook, and Pinterest for Social Media. The chart below shows the number of “followers” for each platform at the end of December 2017.  Note: I started with zero followers for all platforms.  Again, I’m not sure what the gold standard is, but thought that some new bloggers might be interested in seeing how another “newbie” is doing.

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My Top 5 Posts in 2017 were:
  1. 7 Super Practical tips to Helping Your Children Succeed
  2. 3 Simple Christmas Crafts for Preschoolers Part 2
  3. How to Host One Amazing Christmas Cookie Exchange
  4. Organize Your Pantry
  5. Make Money Decluttering
Tips for Aspiring Bloggers

If there are any aspiring bloggers out there, here are a few tips that helped me launch.

1. Know your strengths / weaknesses

The technical side of blogging was intimidating enough to make me want to quit. One of my first decisions was to get someone to help me set up the blog so that I didn’t get bogged down or discouraged. You can do this for as little as $60.

2. Identify a topic that is broad and that you’re passionate about

If you want to post consistently, you need to have a broad enough topic and one that you won’t get bored with.   Before I ever wrote my first post, I brainstormed 50+ potential titles of posts I could write about that aligned with my main categories.

3. Identify your audience

Who do you want to connect with, to reach, and to build a community with? How will that influence your voice, your graphics, colors, topics etc.

4. Join a community of bloggers

Like the Facebook groups I mentioned previously, these communities can help when you have questions. There are hundreds of groups out there, some are focused on promoting blogs while others are centered around helping new bloggers learn the ropes.  Find one that’s right for you.

5. Set a post schedule and stick with it

Life gets busy and there were many weeks when I could have said, “I don’t have time for this,” “I’m just going to skip today’s post.” With the idea that I’m building for the future and treating this like a business, even if it meant burning the mid-night oil, I made sure I kept my commitment.  It will pay off in the long run.

Computer on a desk with a vase with flowers and words My first 3 months blogging + tips for new bloggers

The Bottom Line

It’s taken a lot more work than I ever anticipated, but I’ve really enjoyed the journey. It’s fun to have a creative outlet to share ideas, hear the thoughts of others, and hopefully help people along the way. I’m still early in the journey; still finding and refining my “voice”, but at the same time, I’m encouraged by how far “Our Happy Hive” has come.

As I mentioned earlier, the technical side of starting the blog was the most intimidating part of the whole process. In an upcoming post, I’ll detail the steps required for launching a blog in case any of you are interested in venturing out on your own. At the end of the day, I see this as a win win experience and would encourage anyone considering it to give it a try! There’s really very little you can lose!

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  1. Kate says

    January 2 at 5:05 pm

    I’ve been blogging for a little over a year at this point, and I remember those first few months; it felt like a whole new world to me, but everyone was so sweet and welcoming, it’s a great community to be a part of. Joining groups and finding your tribe are great pieces of advice, it makes all the difference in those times when you feel like you have no idea what you’re doing!

  2. Elle says

    January 2 at 5:37 pm

    That’s excellent growth for just 3 months. Great work! I totally agree with joining Facebook groups and finding your “tribe”. It has helped my blog grow tremendously! And you’re right about these groups taking over your Facebook feed 😉

  3. Natalie T says

    January 2 at 8:12 pm

    I’m so impressed with your blogs. They are informative, light, creative and have great ideas and tips. All the best success in 2018.

  4. Catherine says

    January 2 at 9:11 pm

    We just launched our website this Fall, too, and it’s been a super fun experience, and I’ve made many of the same discoveries as you with similar results. It’s so fun to meet people with similar interests. Congrats!

  5. Cathy says

    January 3 at 2:18 pm

    These are some great tips! I’ve been blogging for almost two years now, and I’d love to learn more about how you increased your page views so rapidly! I just got involved in Facebook groups about 6 months ago, and I’ve definitely noticed a difference already. I am so excited to see what 2018 holds for my little blog! 🙂

    • Melissa @ Our Happy Hive says

      January 3 at 9:10 pm

      Cathy- most of my traffic comes through pinterest. I put out 10-25 pins per day. The Facebook groups is another place where I’ve been able to get the word out. Oh and if you haven’t checked out Stumble Upon, it’s another good option to drive traffic! 🙂

  6. Rachel says

    January 3 at 9:18 pm

    Congratulations on some wonderful growth in your first 3 months! I agree, learning Pinterest and how it can drive traffic is a huge thing. Good luck with 2018! 🙂

  7. Tracey says

    January 8 at 12:22 am

    That is amazing! Is there a Pinterest course or tool that you would recommend? I’d love that many pageviews on my baby blog!

    • Melissa @ Our Happy Hive says

      January 9 at 5:53 am

      Thanks Tracey! I use Pic Monkey to make my pins and I’ve done a few courses including Building a Blog Framework by Abby at I also did Pinterest Ninjas. You’re doing a great job with your blog! Love it!

  8. April says

    January 8 at 4:11 pm

    I would say you are doing pretty well for your so for the first 3 months! I don’t think I had that many pageviews in my first 3 months. I can see why though because your topics look very interesting!

  9. Lindsey says

    January 9 at 12:43 am

    You seem to be having great success without being overwhelmed! There really is so much to learn. Support of family and the the blogging community really are the key.

  10. Courtney Buechle says

    January 9 at 1:36 am

    This is great! I wish I had grown that much in Pinterest how awesome! I am almost a year into blogging and most of these as an outsider looking in I would never have known either. Good luck!

  11. Mary Mae says

    January 29 at 4:47 pm

    Wow great progress! I’ve had my blog up for months but haven’t done much with it yet. I’m planning to “launch” it this week and this was inspiring! I just finished the blog by number course and was taking all the info in (I highly recommend Suzi and her courses!) I haven’t really gotten to make friends in the blogging community yet but I’d love to connect even if it’s just to have another mommy friend and share tips 🙂

  12. Ash says

    February 1 at 3:59 am

    Really great post! I’ve also been blogging for almost 3 months and i feel like there is sooo much to learn! It’s really overwhelming at times. I love seeing newbie blogger post like this because it makes me feel a little less alone. Thank you for sharing this!

    • Melissa @ Our Happy Hive says

      February 1 at 4:17 pm

      I’m wish ya ash! It’s always helpful for me to see how other bloggers are coming along. Thanks for checking out the post!

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